I’m gonna be honest – against my better judgement, I kept my expectations way too high for this movie. Between my excitement over a book I had loved being adapted and how absolutely cute all the trailers looked, I definitely bought into the hype. I thought going in that I’d probably be at least a little disappointed – but I didn’t feel disappointed at all.
First of all, this movie is visually beautifully. It’s bright and light and happy looking, and the pop of color and beautiful wide shots help ease the tension as the story goes on.
Secondly, this movie delivers when it comes to both romance and comedy, which is good considering it’s a rom-com. Watching Simon fall in love with every guy he even slightly suspects is gay is equal parts funny, sweet, and relatable to most shy kids who had a crush in high school. The movie does a good job of poking fun at the awkward way he carries himself without feeling like it’s making fun of him.
The movie also handles it’s serious parts just as well. As the plot pushes forwards and Simon’s life starts to spin out of control, the movie does an excellent job of touching on *why* he’s as upset as he is. The jokes take a backseat and something amazing happens – what started off as a cute and refreshing take on teen love stories turns into a well handled and serious – though never preachy – story about what it’s really like to be outed. Small but cutting jokes from family members, out and out bullying at school, the pressure to come out before you’re ready all builds realistically towards Simon’s anxieties about coming out. And of course as Simon so succinctly puts it early on: sometimes you just want to hang onto who you’ve always been seen as.
I’ve only seen Nick Robertson in one thing (in Jurassic World to be exact) so I didn’t really have an opinion on him going in but he was excellent. During a confrontation between him and the guy that outs him, he gives it his all. There was no delicate single tear going on here – he was red faced and shaking, getting up in people’s faces and then collapsing in on himself, and it was fascinating and heartbreaking to watch.
But the movie ends on a happy note, like most good romantic comedies do. The romance builds to a typically cheesy and sweet rom-com ending made triumphant because it’s for such an atypical story. Simon gets to heal, gets the guy – and no spoilers but he gets a really fantastic guy – and gets a life that is different than before, but infinitely better.